My dear,
Maybe all one can do is hope to end up with the right regrets.
Maybe all one can do is stand at the train platform of life, no map in hand, and choose the train they think is headed the right way. And once on it and moving, to look across the tracks and in seeing the other trains veer off to wherever they go to, to not be too wanting of being on them.
..Maybe all one can do is flip a coin, choose with their heart, and hope to dear God that the other options didn’t hold out for better.
Falsely yours,
Arthur Asher Miller