My dear,
You have your way. I have my way. As for the right way, the correct way, and the only way, it does not exist.
And do not ask for an outsider’s opinion. Their opinion on matters is just that, opinion. We’re each bias by just being. We each see the world through our life experiences. We each wear glasses of different sizes and shape and tinting; permanently glued to our vision.
Think of the right and only way as an imaginary friend that no one sees but everyone describes perfectly.
Falsely yours,
Friedrich Wilhelm Nietzsche